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Why do we end up with people who aren't very good for us? Because it's easy and because it's easy, we get bored with those people.

Reviewed by Corman Sep 14 2007, 12:28pm ( 7 reviews ) • shrinktalk.net

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Rated by techlawadvisor on Feb 27 2008, 11:51am

Had Dr. Rob provided me with this advice a year earlier it may actually have aided in me having a better understanding of the disastrous relationship that I was in. Thanks anyway Doc.
Rated by bahman38 on Sep 14 2007, 9:42pm

good work.
Rated by JeffWaldman on Sep 14 2007, 7:31pm

True words spoken.
Rated by TuckerMax on Sep 14 2007, 1:10pm

Goddamn right, that is a money quote of mine
Rated by DonikaMiller on Sep 14 2007, 12:33pm

I don't know how many times people need to hear this.
Rated by Corman on Sep 14 2007, 12:28pm

Why do we end up with people who aren't very good for us? Because it's easy and because it's easy, we get bored with those people.
Rated by brasidas on Sep 14 2007, 12:17pm

In the short term, many of us tend to approach what is easy, and will repeat behaviors that lead to feeling good. In the long-run, however, this tends to bore many of us. In the same vein, a woman may be initially attracted to a man who caters to her every whim and rarely stands up for himself, but ultimately she protests:

Installing is Easy!