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JackCuStowe rated 4 months ago - How to Handle Difficult People
Don't you Hate Controllers..... astro-mate.org/Difficult.htm [astro-mate.org]
Click the above link to Learn about Invalidators and how to understand why they do what they do as bizzare as it seem at times.
It's hard to recognize an invalidator, beca...
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 JackCuStowe rated 4 months ago- How to Handle Difficult People
Don't you Hate Controllers..... astro-mate.org/Difficult.htm [astro-mate.org]
Click the above link to Learn about Invalidators and how to understand why they do what they do as bizzare as it seem at times.
It's hard to recognize an invalidator, because a truly good one can bypass the scrutiny of your logical mind, and you find yourself feeling bad without knowing why.
The invalidator is underhanded, and the person being invalidated is often unsuspecting except for knowing that he or she feels bad. The invalidator actually feels inferior to some other person, so he or she tries to make that other person feel small. Thus the invalidator can control the victim. Have you met anyone like this? Whether you are aware of it or not, you probably have. You probably know one or several invalidators.
Do you have someone in your life that is always trying to control how thingss are done ? Do they always put you down and make you feel small? If so You have an invaildator on your hands that loves to belittle you.
Invalidators can and will screwup the rest of your life if you let them.
astro-mate.org/Difficult.htm [astro-mate.org]
 skafan rated 41 months ago- how to handle difficult people
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