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 pervypeahead rated 10 months ago - what a load of patronising BS. it's about one night stands, not cheating. one night stands are crap but cheating is 10,00000000000000 (add 0's as you see fit).
having been on all sides of the triangle, both unwittingly and knowingly. it's far more complex then this glib article. ...
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- pervypeahead rated 10 months ago
- what a load of patronising BS. it's about one night stands, not cheating. one night stands are crap but cheating is 10,00000000000000 (add 0's as you see fit).
having been on all sides of the triangle, both unwittingly and knowingly. it's far more complex then this glib article. recently i was in a situation which i didn't want to happen and people got hurt because i wasn't brave enough to speak up and own my feelings for the men involved. i do love them both, still do and just wish there was some way round things. as it stands i'm not happy about how i acted and it is now evolved into a new pattern of behaving to keep real intimacy at bay. or it could be i'm greedy and a slut? (well, that's what my mum called me!) or the other situation was someone contacted me online and he failed to mention his girlfriend. fortunately meeting up never happened. he only "fessed" up to having a girlfriend because i asked him outright as something suddenly felt wrong. the cheeky sod thought i'd be ok with the situation and we could still meet up for naughtiness and still talk about the same things as before! no chance. i don't understand why any one would want to be with me, let alone risk their own relationship for cheap thrills with me. that's the truth of the matter. Rich is the ONLY man i have never cheated on. when his shrink was fucking around with his medication and just after i had our son, it was an amazingly screwed up time- ( mellerill has now been banned it;s that fucked up) i went out the first time after childbirth, (had stopped breastfeeding at 6 weeks) dropped 3 pills and someone snogged me, but that was all. i felt terrible and told Rich straight away and nothing like that ever happened again. Rich made me see i didn't want other men. i just wanted and needed him and our son. the rest is an illusion.
sorry, that ought to read WAS an illusion.
that is the allure of cheating, the fake glamour, the adrenalin, the endorphin rush of being wanted. but it is a lie, and remains a lie. the superficial benefits i'm getting from the man i'm not having a relationship with but seeing is comfy. actually no. it's comfy for him. it;s not all one way, he comes round and cooks for me and my son sometimes and sometimes we all go out to the pub together in the summer. sometimes sometimes sometimes doesn't make up for the the times in between. i miss Rich too much to be in a "proper" relationship, but also sick of selling myself short just to be there for someone just to come round when it suits them, and this goes for both of the guys in the first part of the passage. one just turns up at times ranging from midnight to 4am no phonecall no nothing, sometimes covered in blood from fighting, sometimes covered in vomit, but always drunk. and i let him in and into my bed. becuase i do love him and i'm nothing but an ugly whore so it;s ok. and then the other, well, he calls me. his honesty is good when he says he can never love me. he has valid reasons for feeling that way. it can sting abit but i;d prefer the honesty than have a lie. it may not be love, but its good enough for me. no it;s not. but i;d rather have a few snatched moments of happiness than sat alone 100%. then there are the times of bouncing between them, each time more things happen that erode my resolve of making it all stop because i'm so desparate for someone to be there. its so alone without Rich and nothing can bring Rich back. i feel like i'm cheating on him even though he has been dead 3years on tuesday. it hurts. it all hurts. and this crap has to be sorted out as it's not fair on my son and i don't want him thinking that this is the model of adult relationships.
- zoolka rated 11 months ago
- hahahah... this is my favourite !
From the page: "Is my boyfriend related to the person I am going to sleep with?"
=D
Jim, good job =D
- Linna rated 11 months ago
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Take your Face ...OFF !:P
 harleylenore rated 10 months ago- excuse me but WHAT THE FUCK?!!
a guide on how to cheat and not get caught. anyone who thumbs up this is fucking sick. im sorry, but i've been cheated on and i wouldn't wish that on anyone. MUCH LESS GIVE THEM A GUIDE ON HOW TO FUCKING DO IT.
if you are with someone and you want to cheat, for the love of any god you choose, break up with them. if you care that fucking little, LEAVE.
seriously. what the fuck. if you want to be a slut and fuck some other guy while you are dating someone... at least leave the guy. dont use the excuse "oh i love him blah blah blah". if that was true you wouldnt be fucking another guy. and oh not telling him about it? oh yeah, thats a REAL good way to soften the blow.
dumb. fucking. whores.
im fucking disgusted now. awesome.
- Jimys rated 11 months ago
- I wrote that article under a barrel of a gun!:p
but still, there are some advise for you ladies that you might find useful:)
- Atalia rated 11 months ago
- Cheating is not a good thing but sometimes it just happens!
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