I found this to be very interesting. I was once told that you don't really love a person for who they are but how they make you feel and who they make you. I don't completely agree, you have to enjoy a persons presents but his whole point is there is that one thing that you introduce to all relationships that can make or break it. This article made me think of the one thing I do in a relationship and how my past boyfriends have reacted to it. If they don't particularly like this thing I do then I'm not sure the relationship could last. He wasn't saying that this one thing was totally the reason why you stay with a person but like he said, the girl just wanted to give the man more potatoes and if he doesn't like that it probably made her a bit uncomfortable when she wanted to grab the ladle. I thought it made a lot of sense.