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simbasmouse is a 14 year old woman from Hobkoken, New Jersey, USA

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    Rated Sep 20 2008 1 review relationships nytimes.com

    From the page: "as very young, just beginning to speak in sentences, he asked if he had a brother once. Lisa paused a moment before answering, but by the time she started to speak, he had moved on to something else.
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    Rated Sep 02 2008 1 review nytimes.com

    From the page: ", because they see at a glance which way a story is heading. In 2002, for instance, a French wine researcher named Frédéric Brochet gave 54 experts an array of red wines to evaluate. Some of the glasses contained w"
  • Basics - In Dealing With Death, Are Animals Just Like Us...

    Rated Sep 02 2008 1 review multimedia nytimes.com

    From the page: "Yes, were a lot like other primates, particularly the great apes, with whom we have more than 98 percent of our genes in common. Yet elaborate displays of apparent maternal grief like Ganas may reveal less about our shared awareness of death than our shared impulse to act as though it didnt exist. Dr. Hrdy, author of oeMother Nature” and the coming oeMothers and Others,” said it made adaptive sense for a primate mother to hang onto her motionless baby and keep her hopes high for a while. oeIf the baby wasnt dead, but temporarily comatose, because it was sick or fallen from the tree, well, it might come back to life,” Dr. Hrdy said. oeWere talking about primates who have singleton births after long periods of gestation. Each baby represents an enormous investment for the mother.”"
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    Rated Aug 31 2008 1 review multimedia nytimes.com

    From the page: "Theres nothing oefun or funny” about putting a poor person in a mud hut in clothing designed by Alexander McQueen, she said in a telephone interview. oeThere are farmer suicides here, for Gods sake” she said, referring to thousands of Indian farmers who have killed themselves in the last decade because of debt. "
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    Rated Aug 19 2008 1 review multimedia nytimes.com

    From the page: "hown images of attractive men and women paid less attention to them if they had just been reminded about the person they loved.

    The results, say the researchers, led by Jon K. Maner of Florida State University, suggest that humans may have developed mechanisms to safeguard long relationships. The study appears in Evolution and Human Behavior.

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  • Cases - Looking Squarely at Death, and Finding Clarity -...

    Rated Aug 19 2008 1 review multimedia nytimes.com

    From the page: "ut this is not so much a story about a rare, violent ambush by a micro-organism as about a doctor and a patient, staring death in the face. Thats what the 81-year-old woman was doing, and from countless wordless clues " her wide-eyed gaze, the periodic flutter of her hand to a cross around her neck " I believe she knew it. These days, when deaths footfalls are often silenced by drugs and machines, not many people have the chance to confront their fate so squarely.

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  • A Son痴 Revenge: 詮riendbombing - Facebook.com - New...

    Rated Aug 18 2008 1 review multimedia nytimes.com

    From the page: "Facebook recently started offering accounts to corporations, and I signed up, and immediately oefriended” Sam and Elizabeth, as well as several colleagues at work. My colleagues and I have not written on each others oewalls” " a way for members to leave messages that can be read by anyone in the network " because we are, you know, grown-ups. We are neither hip nor cool, nor are we happening. And I was happily able to check in on my kids.

    But things took a turn on Monday, when oenew friend” requests started rolling in from students at my sons high school. It was mystifying. I dug around and found that Sam had formed a group, Friend My Father.

    He wrote, oeMy dad got a Facebook, lets make it worth his while.” He told them how to find me online, and then wrote, simply, oeGo!”

    Sam invited more than 100 teenagers to join the Friend My Father group. That night, more than a dozen did so, with oenew friend” requests popping up every hour or so. Many of them wanted to say Hi. I replied. One asked questions like oewaddup mr shcwartz? how it goes” and oer u a journalist or a writer? is there a difference?”

    I had, to coin a phrase, been friendbombed. It reminded me of what computer security experts call a oedistributed denial of service attack,” in which multiple computers send so many messages or information requests that data cant get into or out of the targeted machine. As I sat at home Monday night trying to get work done, I occasionally moaned and announced to my wife, in resigned monotone: oeAndrei has asked to be my friend. Sida has asked to be my friend. Alison has asked to be my friend.” My wife, who ridiculed me for cybersnooping on our boy, laughed at what she seemed to think was some kind of poetic justice, and said that Sam had cleverly exacted his revenge.

    I explained to Sam that I didnt quite know what to do with all of my new friends. oeYes!” he said with a smile. oeI embarrassed my dad!”

    The friend requests continue. Ive known at least some of these kids for a long time, and like them. Its nice to know that they like me enough to sign in and say, oeHey.”

    But Facebooks use of the word oefriend” is a little troubling in a world where true friendship is hard to find and even harder to sustain. The idea of getting friends wholesale seems to be part of that element of the Internet that can render life virtual and a little pallid. In many ways, the Internet strengthens relationships by allowing easy communication over a distance. But without a human touch, its hard to keep the conversation going beyond niceties. Facebook seems to be saying: oeSure, we might be seeing less of our real friends face to face. But well make it up with volume.”

    I have visions of becoming like Charlie Rosenbury, a college student in Missouri who ended up with tens of thousands of friends by writing an automated program that put his request out far and wide. He became a Facebook celebrity and an object of ridicule.

    But mainly what I wonder, as the new requests pop up one after another, is what parents will think if they discover that I am part of their teenagers network of friends. I worry that two terrifying words will come to mind: Mark Foley.
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  • Your Modifier Is Dangling - New York Times

    Rated Aug 18 2008 1 review multimedia nytimes.com

    From the page: "her generations reputation for slovenly language, and taking up the gauntlet for good grammar. Last year, after seeing a sign on a restaurant window that said oeApplications Excepted,” she started a grammar vigilante group on Facebook, the social networking site, and called it oeI Judge You When You Use Poor Grammar.” Its 200,000 members have gleefully and righteously sent in 5,000 photographs documenting grammatical errors."
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    Rated Aug 18 2008 1 review multimedia nytimes.com

    From the page: "Facebook and YouTube may be full of images of young people doing bong hits, exposing body parts and, worst of all, jamming to Guitar Hero; but it has also become common, says Joe Murphy, a 25-year-old law student at Columbia, for career counselors to tell graduating students oeto Google yourself, and go through your Facebook page, and take everything down.” Entree into the adult world now comes with a new warning: Anything and everything online can be held against you.

    Even if we can all agree that politicians will forever succumb to sleaze, theres yet another way technology might kill off the sex scandal. At a seminar at the interactive telecommunications program recently, says Daniel Liss, a 39-year-old classmate of Mr. Mhatres, he and some other students were joking that in the future, oeyoull have your CV online, your résumé online, and your sex video online.” When everyone has already seen everything (and is thoroughly bored by most of it), the theory goes, politicians will have to find another way to self-destruct.

    In that futuristic world scheme, middle-aged tabloid lovers would no doubt mourn the good old days of tawdry morality tales. And young people would have to go back and Google the old stories if they wanted to know how they went down. The affairs may come and go, but on Google, theyll live forever.

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  • Priced Out of Weight Loss Camp - NYTimes.com

    Rated Aug 18 2008 1 review multimedia nytimes.com

    From the page: "p, she had lost 37 pounds. She hopes to get down to 304 by the time camp ends next week. Whether she does or not, Tiffany is already one of the lucky few.
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    Campers gathering for soccer. Ms. King, right, aims to lose 50 pounds at the camp.

    Her family could not have afforded camp if Tiffany had not won a scholarship essay contest.

    There are nine million overweight or obese children in the United States. And although the prevalence of childhood obesity has tripled since 1980, there are few comprehensive or affordable programs to treat them. Summer weight loss camps are usually profit-making and can cost more than $1,000 a week. Most insurance does not cover that cost.

    For Dr. Walter J. Pories, a well-known gastric bypass surgeon, the dearth of government and insurance financing for such comprehensive weight-loss programs is oethe single most frustrating problem in dealing with childhood obesity.”

    Christina Benson, Tiffanys mother, knows all too well that insurance coverage is spotty. She works for a health insurance program in Durham, N.C. oeI work in the health care industry and I think it is really a disgrace, a disadvantage to our members, that we cannot offer this kind of program under reimbursement,” Ms. Benson, a widow since Tiffanys father died, said.

    Several national groups are pressing for government financing or insurance reimbursement for more intensive weight loss treatment for children, including weight loss camps. In the meantime, many children mostly have to follow Tiffanys lead. She submitted a personal essay that was well written, sad and compelling. oeIf I could get on my knees and beg for this campership, I would, because I want to feel good about my life,” she wrote. oeSometimes, if Im walking down the street, I can hear people talking about me and staring at me.”

    She compared herself to a oeplump caterpillar” waiting to break free of its cocoon. (Read her entire essay at nytimes.com/business.)

    As she prepares to enter the seventh grade, Tiffany Kings weight has placed her at high risk of developing the Type 2 diabetes that runs in her family, which would make her part of an epidemic of overweight and Type 2 diabetes that is reaching into ever younger age groups.

    Camp Pocono Trails is part of a chain of three New Image Camps whose other sites are in Florida and California. Pocono Trails received 173 entries to its essay contest this year " for 10 slots. (Tiffany is spending eight weeks at Pocono Trails, a session that normally costs nearly $8,000.)

    Another chain of weight loss camps, Wellspring, received more than 200 applications for 35 subsidized or free stays at one of its nine camps.

    Wellspring, which runs a total of two schools and nine camps in America, England and Australia, says it is seeking corporate sponsors to help provide more scholarships. Wellspring also recently helped start one of the advocacy groups pushing for insurance coverage of programs like weight loss camps, Childhood Obesity Treatment in Action.

    As things now stand, depending on the insurance company, some medical and psychological components of weight loss treatments are covered, and parents can sometimes take tax deductions for fees to programs, depending on their tax situation.

    At Wellspring, approximately one in three campers has received insurance reimbursement for about one-fourth of the cost " the portion that includes cognitive behavioral therapy, which is sometimes covered by mental health plans.

    There are about two dozen around the country, most of them run as for-profit operations. They typically emphasize exercise and controlled meal portions while serving balanced diets. Camp directors report that children generally lose weight during their stays at camp.

    The big challenge comes later, when children resume their normal routines and confront the smorgasbord that is America " food in their own kitchens and at friends homes, fast-food restaurants and school cafeterias.

    Dr. Pories, who also heads the Metabolic Institute at East Carolina University, found that children lost an average of about 8 percent of their body weight in a program he studied over three years; but two-thirds regained all or part of their weight.

    Even Dr. Pories, who has been involved in promoting weight loss camp scholarships for underprivileged children in eastern North Carolina, says, oeA two-thirds failure rate is not acceptable.”

    Some camps advertise better long-term results.

    Critics of the camp contests worry that however well meaning, the essay competitions have drawbacks. The essays, in which children bare deeply embarrassing moments and personal problems, become the property of the camp or sponsors. Winners are sometimes encouraged to make themselves available for media interviews that generate publi