25 Secrets
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Dare I say it happened to me? It was a long time ago but I remember it like it was yesterday. We had been flirting online for weeks and had progressed to phone conversations. I thought he had a great voice and he said he was turned on by mine. Who wouldn't have been flattered by that? I thought he was perfect for me and couldn't wait til we had an opportunity to meet. We'd meet online to chat and we'd talk on the phone and soon the phone bills were more than a plane ticket. Could someone, anyone, be perfect for me? I had to know.
My grown children were shocked. I was NOT to meet this man.
"He could be an axe murderer," said my daughter.
"He could be a jerk," said my son.
They both were worried for my safety and all I could think of was what if he WAS perfect for me. Did I want to go through my entire life wondering if I'd missed out on the good one? I'd already had a bad one and didn't want another one like that.
We made plans to meet but all we promised each other was that we would each have a good time. No other promises were made. I think many people meeting through the net make a big mistake by promising love or sex or anything in particular. What if you don't like them? You might feel obligated to have sex with someone you have no desire for - no thanks. I knew we'd have a good time because we enjoyed each other's company online and on the phone so in person couldn't be too bad.
I made the journey and he was waiting for me with a bouquet of roses and when he saw me he threw them on the floor and put his arms around me and kissed me. How cool was that? He did pick up the flowers and give them to me after the kiss. He was exactly like he'd been on the net. He was intelligent, fun, sexy, friendly, honest, witty and did I say sexy?
We got to his place and in his great concern for my exhaustion from the travel, he suggested that I take a shower and lie down.
"Nothing will happen, you just need some rest."
Uh huh. I took the shower and went to lie down and we got up after we'd had sex SEVEN times.
It's been more than 13 years since we met and he's still perfect for me.








