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I'm politically incorrect, morally absent, ethically a pariah, socially an animal, emotionally damaged, sexually absent, idealogically contemptuous, theologically damned, intellectually complicated and kind-natured to a fault.

  • Marriage: For Worse, Then for Better - TIME

    Rated Nov 23 1 review psychology time.com

    In lieu of SU's newest newlyweds. There are two key  predictors of a resilient relationship: mutual support and a willingness to sacrifice. That's one down. The rest is easy peazy.


    From the page: "Surviving the gauntlet of misfortune early in a relationship can be a valuable litmus test, say counselors. A relationship crisis "smashes the illusion of invulnerability," says William Doherty, a psychologist and marriage researcher who runs the Marriage and Family Therapy Program at the University of Minnesota. That illusion, he says, "was going to go away anyway, and I don't think there's any great loss to it going away sooner than later."
    Marriage: For Worse, Then for Better - TIME
  • The Chameleon Effect | PsyBlog
  • Narcissist Nation | Facebook

    Rated Nov 20 1 review psychology, narcissism facebook.com

    Everyone has a bit of narcissistic measures however, when does it become pathological?

    Narcissist Nation | Facebook
  • Radical US psychiatrist says mental illness is not a...

    Rated Nov 19 1 review activism, health, psychology guardian.co.uk

    "Daniel Fisher was a young, idealistic man in his mid-20s, enjoying life in a hippy commune, when he was hospitalised for four months in 1970 and diagnosed with schizophrenia. During that stay in hospital - his second of three on psychiatric wards - friends came to visit with a copy of One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest, the bestselling Ken Kesey novel - later to become an Oscar-winning movie - about life on an Oregon psychiatric ward. He recalls fondly: "They said: 'Man, this is crazy. You gotta get out of here.' It was just a different era. We are in a much more conformist era." Fisher, a prominent psychiatrist who is advising the Obama administration on mental health issues, has been on a personal mission for two decades to change the way wider society understands and reacts to mental illness. An advocate of the "recovery model" - which posits that a diagnosis of mental illness is not for life, and that people can recover completely - Fisher is an outspoken and controversial figure in the US, campaigning vigorously for the rights of people diagnosed with a mental illness. Much of what he does is rooted in his own experience. "Human rights doesn't even begin to grasp it," he says. "It goes much deeper than that.""- RAPatton

    "There is something unique, he suggests, about the individualism and self-help philosophy that permeates American culture, making it particularly conducive to advocacy of the rights of patients - or consumers, as they are commonly called in the US. "I know I shouldn't generalise, but it is a bit old world, new world," he says. "The culture we live in here that people [outside the US] don't understand is that we are very self-help and peer-support oriented." Despite all the progressive changes to mental health care in Britain over the years - from the closure of large asylums to moves toward a recovery model - Fisher contends that activists in the UK have been too "tame"." - RAPatton

    "Not only does he reject the notion that people cannot recover from serious mental illnesses, he rejects the term mental illness. "We don't believe that description is helpful. In fact, we think it's harmful - not only in terms of stigma and discrimination, but also in terms of recovery, because it focuses the person's own attention and the people around them on the wrong issues. It focuses on: 'You take this pill and be compliant, and you listen to the doctors.'" What matters, he says, is the kind of support people get when they need it most. "It's unfortunate that the first message people hear when they are in acute distress is: 'You have incurable brain disease.' That takes a long time to undo. The first thing that people hear should be: 'Yeah, you're in distress, but other people have been in that [state] and there's hope, and you can heal.' If people heard that, many more would recover. Medicine is a tool, but it's not the primary tool."" - RAPatton


       Radical US psychiatrist says mental illness is not a life sentence |    Society |    The Guardian
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  • The Psychological Immune System | PsyBlog

    Rated Nov 12 7 reviews psychology spring.org.uk

    Feelings aren't right or wrong, they just are.





    It's how we react to them that matters most. Feel the feeling throughout then release it. Take a deep breath afterward and don't forget to exhale!  I promise, the world won't come to an end although you may turn blue and and passout unecessarily, hehehe.
    The Psychological Immune System | PsyBlog
  • voiceofsandiego.org: Public Safety... Helping Suicidal...

    Rated Nov 09 1 review activism, psychology, sociology voiceofsandiego.org



    As a crisis negotiator with the San Diego Police Department, Rick Carlson was tasked with talking people out of committing suicide. Photo: Sam Hodgson
     voiceofsandiego.org: Public Safety... Helping Suicidal Jumpers Save Their Lives
  • Negative thinking might not be so negative after all |...

    Rated Nov 04 7 reviews psychology zmescience.com

    The study proved that people who were experiencing bad moods were more critical and paid more attention to the surrounding environment than happier people, who were more likely to believe everything that they were told.



    Negative thinking might not be so negative after all | ZME Science
  • Clever fools: Why a high IQ doesnt mean youre smart - 28...

    Rated Oct 30 3 reviews psychology newscientist.com

    I.Q. test scores are only important when seeking employment ideas as the goal of even testing. The ideal in life is to have a high E.Q. (emotional quotient) Having a high score the a high eq will get you far in life no matter which industry you choose to work.
    Clever fools: Why a high IQ doesnt mean youre smart - 28 October 2009 - New Scientist
  • 5 Emotional Vampires and How to Combat Them | World of Psychology