First of all, let's get the obvious out of the way: worshiping oneself and appreciating personal spirituality does not make a woman a goddess, that immediately sets up a dynamic doomed to fail.
Second, "don't chase a man" and "not easily attained" and "she is feminine"? What's this bullshit? I happen to be comfortable in a dress more so than baggy jeans, that doesn't make me any more of a goddess than my lesbian friend who prefers sweats and jerseys. Not to mention, if I love a man, I'll chase him and let him attain me as much as I goddamn want to.