but then the second love would get your improved version of love. and the third would get your lessons you've learned from the first two. i think love is a learning process and when you get to someone perfect for you, two things have happened. 1. you have gotten incredibly lucky, and/or 2. you have graduated and are ready to start your career if you will. i appreciate the poetic beauty here but poetry can put emotions in the way of seeing things clearly.