I think that chemistry is key, but most people don't give a guy a chance. Let's keep it realistic, great guys are harder to find because most women don't know what to do if one comes into their life. A lot of times it's phychological, what we can't have we want. What we can't do, you do sometimes. People have been saying for years, your best friend is the best mate sometimes. You tolerate each other, care to help each other, care to listen, and enjoy each others company. Cheers to the good guys, I love you!!!