Fo serious, I'm with Nepenthi on this one. Let's take someone's entire existence and boil it down to one decision we've chosen to judge them on. What about all the good shit Imaginary Sarah has done in her life? None of that counts because we've decided to blindly dismiss her based on one event?
Working retail, and being treated like shit every day by every person in 2-minute chunks, forces you to re-evaluate your perspective on people. You can't hate everyone based on the way they treat you when they've been standing in line for an hour just to buy fucking Scotch tape so they can wrap their Christmas presents for a party they have to go to in twenty minutes and my God, you just CHARGED ME FOR THE TAPE THREE TIMES AAAAARGH RAAAAAGE.
Basically, I spent several years trying to give people the benefit of the doubt, and this shitty article is telling you to ignore context and make snap judgments about people. Fuck you, Oprah Site. If I were to judge you on this article, I would say EVERYTHING INSIDE OF YOU SUCKS.