From the page: ""When I tried to tell her it was over, she would beg me not to go, and cry. She threatened if I didn't leave Ellen and marry her, she would kill herself. Once, she acted as if she were carrying out her threat, running across the road and was almost hit by a car.""
Isn't that just like men like him. They'll take any excuse to blame someone else. Even if she did come onto him, doesn't he have any sort of spine to turn her down? And how dare the secretary react badly when a man sleeps with her twice and then tells her to fuck off!