The advice in this article is nothing but horse manure.
If you are with a man who cheats, he is NOT worth giving yourself to, nor does he have any conscience or moral character.
Counseling? Not necessary at all. Leave him and NEVER look back. It is that cheater that needs the counseling, not you. Unless, of course, you decide to stay. Then you are as sick as he is and you do need counseling.
If he cheats, he IS a cheater. You cannot change that, EVER.
If he would do it once, he WILL do it again. Don't lie to yourself. And, certainly, don't ever believe him again. His promise given in marriage or so-called love is no good and never will be. He is nothing but a liar and a cheat.
Don't be stupid. Unless, of course, you place no value on yourself as a person. Or maybe you are so fearful, weak and needy that you cannot leave (if this is you, you are allowing yourself to be a doormat). Or, maybe you love pain. Then, by all means, stay with the vermin.
Love, true love, does not involve pain or disrespect. To promise someone your love and then cheat is NOT respectful; and it certainly is not loving. Do not think it is; and do not think they will change. They won't. People are who they are, believe it.
A male who cheats is NOT a man. He nothing but a walking, talking, lying penis who has no restraint. Quite simply, he is a SLUT. He is NOT a man.
Do you want to be with a slut? Do you want a venereal disease? Then, by all means, stay.
I hear the writing of a million pens right now taking notes to help avoid the 6 signs.