These are some words to change your life. Need to print these out!
And 4 becomes the 1.
" Nothing others do is because of you.
What othrs say and do is a projection of their own reality, their own dream.
When you are immune to the opinion of others, you wont be the victim of needless suffering."
My favorite is, "Don't take anything personally." So many times we assume that someone is purposefully directing angry vibes at us. Most times it has absolutely nothing to do with us.
This book really helped me a lot and I recommend it to everyone. It is a quick read and has lots of really good suggestions. I like how it offers a moral code with absolutely no religion, god, or any other BS. My favorite agreement is to take nothing personally. it's excellent advice.
From the page: " Speak with integrity.
Say only what you mean.
Avoid using the word to speak against yourself or to gossip about others.
Use the power of your word in the direction of truth and love.
Don Miguel Ruiz (1997)
A Toltec Guide to Personal Freedom